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Guidance My
Perspective
Many years ago,
when I opened my first counseling and clinical hypnotherapy practice in Nashville, Tennessee,
my perspective was primarily psychological, based on my training and education.
But in working with people over the course of time I began to see the limits of this paradigm and often,
in hypnosis, individuals would spontaneously go far beyond the boundaries of my
accepted belief system at the time. Slowly I opened up to the reality that the
inner world of consciousness was much grander than I had been taught or even imagined.
Although I had an MA in behavioral science and religion and was certified in clinical
hypnotherapy by the Center For Integral Medicine, school of medicine, UCLA, I soon
learned that, in working with people, 'book-learning' wasn't enough. I came to
realize that knowledge was of the mind, while true wisdom was of the heart.
Wisdom is born of our experience in all the areas of our life: our relationship with
other people, our bodies, our emotions and our understanding of the nature of the
universe and how it works.
I continue to be an avid reader, always seeking deeper understanding and knowledge in
all areas of life, but it is really wisdom that I most honor. It is wisdom that I
fall back on in counseling others and meeting my own challenges in life. I have
come to see that we live in a multidimensional universe which is not easily contained
or even understood by the custodians of consensus reality such as conventional science,
medicine, organized religion, etc. Quantum physics is only now discovering what true
mystics have known for eons - the universe is a hologram and every thought and
action is related to and affects the whole.
The 'western mind' has been excellent in taking things apart and analyzing the
various components and elements. This has given us our advanced science and
technology. It hasn't been so good at seeing the relationship of all of the parts
to the whole, however. Our current environmental crisis as well as our ongoing
infantile approach to international relations is the result of a world view that
doesn't understand the interrelatedness of all things and the long term results of
our actions.
My own experience has been that a purely psychological, medical or religious approach
to problems is insufficient because each approach relates to only one aspect of who we
are. We are body, mind, spirit, emotions -- and our relationships. So as we look at
personal challenges, it is important to understand the interrelatedness of it all.
Every practitioner is limited to the extent of their knowledge, training and experience.
Each can offer only what they have. Each of us, however, has a "Wise Counselor" within
whose knowledge is very specific to us. I simply call it Guidance. Some refer to the
Higher Self. Call it what you will, we each have this innate wisdom which can be
tapped for guidance related to our personal circumstances and challenges.
My role is that of guide and my perspective is transpersonal. Transpersonal means,
'beyond personal.' The word personal comes from the Latin word "persona" which refers
to the mask worn by actors. It is a fitting word. In my world view, our Earth
experience is curriculum for personal growth. We create dramas & challenges which
offer us incredible learning opportunities. Our personalities/egos are simply the
masks we wear in this drama. Most often, however, we forget that we are actors.
We get into the drama and become the personality/ego mask we are wearing and take it
all quite seriously. We become imprisoned in our drama, locked into the 'microcosm,'
or 'little picture.'
A transpersonal approach can help us remove our masks, remember who we really are,
step out of the drama and understand what is really going on. It can help us understand
how and why we may have created this experience and what we can do about it. It helps
us move into the macrocosm and see our experiences from the 'big picture.' This can
offer us incredible insight.
At some point in life each of us face crisis. Relationships are often the trigger.
Sometimes it is a financial or health related challenge. Some struggle with deep
questions about the meaning and purpose of life or hit a major turning point in life
and don't know which way to turn. The loss of a loved one can bring up our deepest
emotions. Often we cannot alter circumstances, but we can choose how to view & respond
to them. We can choose whether we will play the victim - blaming others for our
situation - or whether we will be the detective & entrepreneur, delving deeply into
the experience to understand why this is in our life, the message or gift it may be
offering us, and how we can use it to our benefit.
In a Guidance session we seek to do this by stepping 'behind stage' in our own drama
to discover how we empower and disempower ourselves and what we can do to change, if
this is our desire.
This approach may or may not be appropriate for you. The answer to that question is
within yourself. I encourage individuals to trust their own intuition/guidance in
these matters.
Guidance
Sessions
In keeping with the resonate energy of the Sanctuary as well as where
I am at this point in my own life, I offer what I
call ˇ°front porch guidance sessionsˇ± which, depending on the weather
and your preference, may actually be sitting on a deck over looking
the cascading river, sitting around the woodstove or taking a walk
along the forest road. These sessions are appropriate if you just
need someone to talk to about personal concerns and have some guidance
on how you might deal with them. These are offered on a donation basis,
based on your own financial circumstances and how valuable the session is
for you. They normally last between one and two hours..
Self-Hypnosis
Hypnosis can be a powerful vehicle for helping you to access
and work with the source of your own inner wisdom. This has been
identified by many different terms. In psychology it is vaguely
referred to as the super ego. In religious circles it is often referred
to as "Spirit" or your Guide or Guardian Angel. Others refer to
it as simply the 'higher self.' It is that part of oneself that has
a deeper wisdom and greater understanding; that part that sees from
the macrocosm, or big picture. It is that part of each of us which can
access realms of knowing that are not normally accessible to our ego-self.
I am a firm believer in personal empowerment and my goal is to give you
tools that will help you with your life challenges beyond the brief time
we have together. For this reason, my focus is on teaching self-hypnosis
as a path to self understanding and a vehicle for reaching one's goals in
life. With self-hypnosis you can learn how to communicate directly with
your body or a specific 'problem' to gain a deeper understanding as to
what is going on and discover how to bring things back into balance.
The multidimensional world you inhabit is much greater than the daily
humdrum of your 3D experience. You have abilities far beyond what your
ego-personality would have you believe. In your day to day life you use
only a tiny fraction of the these abilities. You have expanded abilities
of multi-dimensional perception and communication which are normally associated
with myth and legend. It is only a matter of learning how to access these and
use them wisely. Your dream world, for example, is a tiny window into this inner
realm of possibilities. Self-hypnosis can also offer you a clear & conscious window
into these inner realms.
Self-hypnosis sessions last approximately an hour and a half and the fee is $75 per session.
For More Information, or to make an appointment, contact
Michael Lightweaver at
lightweave@aol.com. |